- Continuing in a job I dislike
I stay in a job which does not suit me. I always ask myself, "What am I good at?" and, "What do I enjoy?", but I do nothing about the answers.
I do not seek and secure a job that has at least some of the elements of the answers. I miss the opportunity to shine in a job that I will enjoy and thereby advance my career and remuneration.
- Never asking questions
The boss asks me to do something. I leave their office not understanding what they really wanted. Or I leave the office thinking I know exactly what they wanted. In either case I did not ask a clarifying question.
What is the end result? The majority of times I deliver something back which requires a major revision or is completely off track. The reason I did not ask questions in the first place is some misplaced view about how competent I might be seen if I ask clarifying questions.
Returning time and again with work which requires revision, leaves people in no doubt about my competence.
- Never saying, "I don't know"
Pride or fear stop me from saying to the boss, "I don't know" to a question which requires a factual answer. I either make a best guess or I pick an answer I have a vague recollection of from another conversation I had with another colleague.
"I don't know, but I'll find out", is an answer I find difficult to say; even though coming back within a short time with a more considered answer saves time and rework.
- Always managing upwards
I am so inured to concentrating on my career and not wanting to upset my powerful boss that I continually manage upwards. I make sure that the get no bad news. I even go to the level of burying bad numbers in a sea of detail. Or I am economical with my definition of some variables I need to report on so that they appear better than they are.
I do this to the detriment of the business; because the boss does not want to hear bad news, or so I have convinced myself.
- Saying, "We can't because..."
I respond to a presentation on a programme involving change with a sentence commencing with,"We can't because..." I am being incredibly lazy. What I need to do is ask a clarifying question to be sure I heard right and then say, "We can if..."
- Not being specific
I talk about our poor sales figures and explain them away due to "poor sales skills"; instead of being specific and saying, "Poor opening skills" or "Poor product knowledge", or "Poor closing skills". When I am not specific and I talk about a generic solution like "Sales training" for the above example, I risk applying a generic solution to a generic problem. Generic solutions applied to generic opportunities get a completely random result.
- Managing time poorly
I continually arrive late for meetings. I even make a bit of a joke out of it. I can't determine the difference between urgent and important tasks, proactive and reactive tasks. I call meetings which do not have a purpose. I cc people on emails I send because they might like to know. I complain of being overworked, spending many hours in the office over the norm.
- Expecting a bonus for doing my job
I meet my targets, and I think I therefore deserve a bonus. My targets are stretch targets and therefore I think I deserve a large bonus.
In fact, when I meet my targets; I fulfil the requirements of my job. If I always meet my targets, I am likely to be promoted to a more challenging role with a higher salary. If I exceed my targets by a wide margin, then I may deserve a bonus.
- Not seeing the big picture or only seeing the big picture
I work in a silo and am not interested in the impact I have on other departments or the organisation as a whole. That is their problem. They have a job to do just as I do and they just have to cope with what I do to meet my targets.
Or constantly I am aware of the big picture, changing what I do and what my department does to help out. Whatever it takes to get the big picture right is my motto.
I don't get the day-to-day detail done. My customers suffer. My colleagues suffer waiting for my work. Our organisation suffers.
- Not having respect
I bear grudges. Other people are either for me or against me. People must earn my respect. I have no respect for people with whom I disagree. I do not seek the common ground on which we do agree so that we may have respect for each other, even through disagreements.